When The Drunk Monkey is playing the role of The Bully it uses its power, opinions and judgements against you. There is no escape from the ongoing assault. It tells you that you are too fat, too short, not smart enough, not attractive enough, not a good parent..... on and on into eternity it unleashes its endless commentary. The Bully beats you up, and beats up other people. It’s just plain old mean. See it for what it is; scared of the unknown, scared of change, scared of not being in control.